【タコピーの原罪 3話】※視聴注意 「毒親すぎる！」子供の心を蝕むタイガーペアレントを解説　心理療法士が解析する「タコピーの原罪」3話【海外の反応】【英語学習】【英語解説】【英語字幕】【REACTS】

【タコピーの原罪 3話】※視聴注意 「毒親すぎる！」子供の心を蝕むタイガーペアレントを解説　心理療法士が解析する「タコピーの原罪」3話【海外の反応】【英語学習】【英語解説】【英語字幕】【REACTS】

What do you That’s the most ironic and heartbreaking statement of the year. Those two statements should never be spoken together. But here we are. Dude, dead ass. The show’s literally playing classical music in the background, creating this utopic gleefulness, happiness, cheerfulness, while there’s a dead body of a child’s merina on the floor. This classical music should not be played in the background in light of a killing, but here we are. Unfreaking believable, dude. So, it’s been exactly 7 days since Takopia descended onto the planet Earth. And with the discovery of Shizuko again, this there might be no relationship and it’s probably just me overthinking and overanalyzing as always, but that’s what you’re here for. I just made a connection with this Abrahamic Judeo-Christian perspective of Genesis and the Bible and how according to the Bible on the seventh day God rested. Similarly in this case on day seven that’s when the incessant excessive doover do over fix fix unwinding to go backwards to save Shizuka has stopped. In other words, on the seventh day since Taki descended onto planet Earth, that’s when it rested because the camera is broken. Some very weird parallels or just the power of caffeine. But either way, I thought it was cool. The happiest Shizuka has been. Unbelievable. Episode three is called Taco Peace Confession. So curious to see what it’s confessing about. Is it confessing about all the cognitive burden, survivors guilt, all the trauma takop also endured? Because I’m sure Takopi also experience countless vicarious trauma. Definition right here. Vicarious trauma is when like a nurse or health care professional, paramedics when they see someone else’s trauma, they’re not directly experiencing trauma, but they’re witnessing the trauma from happening. And then they experience like a secondhand trauma traumatic experience like a secondhand smoke but in this case secondhand traumatization we call that vicarious trauma. I’m pretty sure with all the traumatic experience and exposure for taco pee, taco pee as a child, I’m guessing would qualify for ACES definition here, adverse childhood experiences. And according to the latest clinical literature, children with high ACE score, adverse childhood experience score, it’s a great predictor, one of the most accurate predictor of their future health situation, the amount of coorbidities, psychiatric illnesses, psychological suffering, even physical ailments and physical deterioration based on the ACEs. So in that sense, Tagopi will be 100% have high ASIS score based on all the exposure I talked about. So this is a crazy situation for everyone involved. So I’m guessing that’s I’m So I wonder what Takob is confessing. Oh, it was a coincidence. Azuma. Okay, so Azuma the Fory who reminds me of Lance from Freeden. Azuma kun or Azuma was concerned. So I I really like Azuma so far. We see Azuma show up again with his again kind gesture of doing what he can despite his limited circumstances of following to the forest because he was concerned because obviously Azuma or other classmates they are hyper aware of the dynamic and the bullying between Marina and Shizuka. Children are not stupid. They’re very astute. If anything, studies also suggest that children have way more refined and sharpens intuition, although raw, but untainted by this experience of life compared to adults. So, children know and they’re way smarter than adults give them credits for. Azuma sees the dead body. Poor Azuma. Azuma simply wanted to follow and step in as necessary. Again, now he’s a victim of vicarious trauma by seeing a dead body of a classmate, Marina. Can you imagine the innocent minds of like children like Azuma uh who is not directly involved like Shizuka to witness all this traumatic exposure, man. Right. The animation did a very adequate and very fitting job portraying the shock, disbelief, and Azuma. Just like the four fear responses that I talked about fights, flights, freeze, and fawn. Here, Azuma is frozen. We’re seeing him freezing because obviously he’s never seen a dead body, let alone someone that he knows. absolutely in shock and disbelief. It is messed up. True. I didn’t catch this. Uh, but the second time that Shizuka keeps saying it’s magic that killed Marina. What can I do about it? It’s magic. It’s magic. Aside from killing of Marina made Shizuka believe in magic and having a dream again for the first time, I just caught another subtle thing that uh you guys might have missed out on. similar to what Marina was doing using scapeole theory that I talked about in episode two by using or viewing uh Shizuka as a scapegoat of Marina’s unfortunate circumstances, father’s betrayal, mother’s negligence and so on. Similarly, in this case with the fragile and limited minds of Shizuka, she’s also using escape code theory. In her minds, it’s not her fault and it’s not. Shizuka did nothing. Shizuka is not the one that self-defended herself. Shizuka is not the one that killed Marina. So, it’s definitely not her fault. But in her minds, because Taki came to her rescue, it’s not Taki’s fault either. Cuz Takop is this innocent, cute, fluffy pink octopus alien. So, what’s the scapegoat? It’s not Takopi. It’s not her. It’s the magic that killed Marina. But of course, Azuma sounds like has a very strong sense of moral rights from wrong, which makes sense. Uh, some of the psychological profiling for Azuma so far in the last three episodes is he does try. He does care. He’s extremely studious and very smart. He has that class president’s role model, studio students vibe. And the fourth, he has some sort of a strong moral morality or moral values. That’s why he’s like, “This isn’t funny.” Taco P, you stop talking. Be quiet. Why are you laughing about it? There’s someone dead. This is not okay. So interesting psychological profiling of Osuma so far. I like him. I’m a big fan of him so far. But knowing this show and how effed up and how emotionally intensive the show is, I’m sure there’s another trauma and some sort of a broken family or attachment style or some sort of a situations and upbringing around Azuma as well. So, we’ll see if that’s revealed in this episode or next. So, whereas Shizuka was in complete denial through scape coding, magic kills Marina, there’s nothing he can do because Shizuka and Takop were literally on their way out exiting from the forest space. Whereas Azuk um Azuka is more rational. He’s more methodical. He’s thinking about action planes. Step one, step two, step three. This is what we need to do. So, uh we also see how smart and organized Azuma is. Whereas Shizuka was just in survival mode as we talked about. Azuma unknowingly is now becoming an accomplice and sharing all the common ways to cover up making someone else hit a fall. So again, I don’t know if Azuma knows what he’s doing by being an accomplice, but the moment Shizuka praised Azuma, you seem like you know a lot. We saw that Azuma blushing briefly. So even based on that interaction, maybe it’s because Shizuka is a girl and Azuma is a boy and boys are prone to the praises and compliments of the girls friends or female friends. Maybe that. But I think there’s a deeper than that. I can sort of tell already that I think Auma based on his mannerism that he’s an high achiever. He’s a studious role model students. I think he probably comes from a conditional love family. What that means is Azuma’s parents are probably tiger parents who praise who only praises him when he’s doing well in class in classes when he’s doing well when he’s excelling academically. That’s probably the only times the parents praise Azuma. Of course, I could be wrong since that’s not been revealed yet, but I could kind of tell from Azuma’s reaction and how he was blushed. He was blushing and he his self-esteem was validated the moment Shizuka was praising Azuma’s intelligence and that you look smart. You look like you know what you’re doing because you’re very well read. So I could kind of tell that Azuma comes from a conditionally loved family just based on interaction. She’s just straight up asking him Shizuka is asking Azuma to go from a passive accomplice who witnessed the crime scene to an active accomplice who actively and proactively helps her to cover up all the evidences. But what I want to zoom in on is again the stark contrast in the spotlighting of Takopi’s innocence face while it was being picked up by Shizuka. Azuma’s despair and concern and Shizuka’s effort to cover up the scene because obviously she doesn’t want to go to a juvenile facility because Azuma is right. No one in their right minds, especially as adults, will believe magic or an octopus alien. So, Shizuka will 100% take the fall and be locked away for however many years, how many years long. Huh? Right there. Did you see Azuma just froze based on a quick memory recall about Sounds like it’s his mom saying that, “Hey, why can’t you do it? Why can’t you do it?” And we know that that was a traumatic flashback because Azuma was triggered based on what Shiko was saying. We saw that it was a traumatizing flashback or PTSD flashback definition right here because his body froze, his eyes went blank. So that solidifies my hypothesis and my psychological profiling of Azuma, an overachiever who comes from a family where his worth, his self-worth and his self-esteem were only recognized and validated when he was doing well. Not unconditional love, but conditional love conditions upon his performance. People like to have very, very low self-esteem. They only feel good when they’re doing good because that’s how they were conditioned. I used to be like that as an overachiever and I also have very conditional selforth. I would only feel good if I were doing well in life professionally, academically and so on. But of course, I I deconditioned and I unlearned all these unhealthy tendencies through my own therapy, my own healing modalities and years of hard work working on my personal development and so on. But that’s that’s what that flashback and Azuma freezing symbolizes and represents. PTSD flashback. Again, Azuma’s PTSD flashbacks are happening. I think because of the conditioning, I think Azuma will help out Shizuka because again, that’s how he’s been conditioned, not his fault. Again, it’s the fault of his parents for raising their child under conditions, conditions of excellence. Big, big trauma for children. You see that? Azuma is blushing and flustered because of that. I can do it. I’m worthy. I’m worthy to be loved. That’s what Azuma is saying. I will help you cover up the crime. I will help you cover up all the evidences so you don’t get caught because I can’t do it. I’m deserving of people’s praises and love and recognition. Absolutely heartbroken. Heartbro heartbreaking as well. So heartbreaking that I can’t even talk. Do you see how cold and analytical and straightforward like actionbased Azuma has become? Azuma is also enter survival mode. It’s like I need to do it’s he entered this problem solving survival mode like he has this tunnel vision. I’m not asking for what’s name. What does it do? He’s very cutthroat right now. But it’s also very interesting to see how the adaptability Auma and even Shizuka and everyone the moment he came across Takopi the alien. Dude, Shizuka is also interesting. Obviously, he’s not she’s not sociopathic. She’s just a very victim of countless brutal cruelty and abuses and trauma, but she’s she’s locked in. She’s absolutely locked in, and she knows they need to do whatever it takes to cover up the crime and the dead body. And unexpectedly, the only one that is wavering and that is doubting this whole thing, this whole cover up scheme, is Taco P itself. But I wonder the final the real final test is would uh Marina’s mom notice anything odd about her daughter because real Marina is dead. It’s now it’s Taco Pacing or replacing Marina because people who are close to you could tell something’s odd, something’s different. people who are close to you, your own tribe, your own community will know even if you look identical, something’s off because your looks can be replicated or mimicked I suppose like uh identical twins and whatnot but your behavior cues your actions your behavior patterns your mannerism your speech patterns and so on all these non-verbal cues will give away is not happy he’s not happy about all this situation As the kids nowadays will say, or I guess my high school kids, cuz I serve and volunteer at high school ministry on on Sundays. As the kids would say, Shizuka and Takupi would have been cooked without Zuma. If Azuma did not find them and trail them into the forest, they would have been cooked. Although Azuma is obviously super Look at, do you see how stressed he is? Because now he’s just become an active accomplice. What a crazy day for everyone, but especially Azuma. Taki’s happy again because of the approval of Shizuko. I could already tell even before she enters the house, let’s always be cheerful. We know that from what we’ve seen, Marina is only cheerful in a fake manner in school and when she’s bullying and beating the crap out of Shizuka. But when Marina is at home, she’s not happy. I’ve never seen Marina smile actually inside of her household because of all the brokenness and trauma I also talked about. So, if Taco P is going to pretend to be all cheerful after she goes home, the mom will definitely know something sus and something’s off. This is not off to a good start for Taki. At least Taki knows where the house is. Since the get-go, we see Taco Peas entered another dysfunctional, chaotic household. And now I finally get why Marina kept calling Shizuka a parasite. Because children watch, hear, and observe what they see at home. Young children are like kind of parrots. They copy and they do what they hear and see. So, the fact that the dad is calling his wife and Marina’s mother a parasites for spending money, his hard-earned money, even though, bro, you’re the husband’s, you’re the dad, your money is her money, your money is the family’s money, because family and marriage is a unit of one. No more separation. But obviously, he’s a [ __ ] dad of the year like I talked about. And not just there, he just threw an item recklessly and almost hit Taco P or fake Marina’s eye and she could have gone blind like what the mother is saying. So you see how this vicious cycle of trauma dad inflicts all the trauma and hurt and abuses towards the mother. The mother then inflicts and pass on all the trauma onto Marina and Marina then pass down pass down and inflicts all that and more onto Shizuka. this endless vicious cycle. But now we’ll see what Takop is thinking about and what does Taki feel and think about this chaos uh it’s walked in. I just love the writer’s way of using this 4D dimension break uh for audience to glimpse into what’s actually unfolding and what’s actually happening while one of the protagonist of Taco P being absolutely clueless. Again, like I talked about, this is probably the best show that’s mastered the storytelling of irony that I’ve I’ve probably ever ever I’ve ever watched. Unfreaking believable writing. It’s very thoughtprovoking and provocative. Azuma is not answering Takobi’s question about divorce mediation. Could be two possibilities. One, he doesn’t know what that means. Uh because divorce could be a foreign concept and very traumatizing for children. But two, I think it’s more likely that Azuma yet again entered his tunnel vision of fixed problem solving. Don’t get caught X, Y, and Z. What do you guys think? Why did Azuma ignore a Takobi just now? And sounds like the mother is talking about divorce mediation. Um, which is obviously probably their last ditch effort to not go through a divorce. Uh, probably for the sake of Marina, I’m guessing. But again, it’s a [ __ ] dad. And Marina’s mom is also not that good of a mom. So, is it really for Marina or is it more for Marina’s mom herself? The the notebook is literally called the secrets. Me uh it’s the same Chinese uh writing but also in Japanese cuz you know Japan used to colonize Chinese and took bunch of Chinese dialects and letters made it to its own obviously many many years ago. But yeah, that that’s read in Chinese, me, which literally means a secret on the book. Probably not the smartest to have a notebook named the secrets in your backpack. Yeah, that’s not suspicious at all. I guess he’s a kid. Um, at the end of the day, who this nice big brother get mom to chill out for me, would you? I’m guessing that Azuma’s brother is like the overachiever, the white sheep in the family, so to speak, and maybe Azuma is like the black sheep. And based on that flashback earlier that we saw from Azuma’s perspective, it sounds like Azuma’s mom compares Azuma and his older brother, who I’m guessing is like the overachiever, the successful one, constantly. Again, very traumatizing and very, very unhealthy for Azuma since the big brother is like the shining example. Um, but I can already sense that based on what Azuma’s brother said. Will you tell our mom to chill out, would you? Again, 100% or I guess nothing is 100%, not even condom or sanitizer. 99.999990% that Azuma’s mother is a tiger parents who’s very anal, very hardcore, very taipe, who cares about achievements, achievements, achievements mindset. Cool brother. He seems like a nice guy. called it that. Now I think we’re seeing into the unfolding and the I guess the elaboration of Azuma’s trauma as I suspected earlier. And we can already tell that Kuna or Azuma’s brother is an overachiever. He gets as much allowance as he wants. Sounds like he’s like the favorite child. Sounds like all of their family’s dream hopes and dreams are onto Azuma’s big brother. It sounds like he’s killing it academically or in school. But here he is. He has a part-time job when he doesn’t have to work. He’s trying to be self-sufficient. And he bought a beautiful ring probably for his mother or someone. Think about that pressure. Not for Azuma’s big brother, but the pressure of comparisons, excessive conditional love onto Azuma as a younger brother. Azuma suffers a lot from like the second child syndrome. uh constantly being compared to that child, the first child being on the pedestal. I feel for Azuma. Why is Shizuka giving these antisocial devices to Azuma? Wow. Is is Shizuka’s true self coming out after Marina was killed? Or again, did Marina’s cruelty and all these antisocial tendencies I talked about rub off of Shizuka? Because remember, children copy and they do what they see and hear and right that’s that’s called priming and conditioning. I hope that’s not the case. So I’m guessing I I hope uh that Shizuka just trying to alleviate and help kind of calm Azuma down and trying to be helpful because obviously Azuma has been super duper helpful towards Shizuka and Taki with the cover up. So maybe she’s trying to pay it forward or pay it back. Bro, that’s lowkey manipulative for Shizuka. Do you think Shizuka knows what she’s doing? That Azuma will do what he is told? What is going on? Why is Shizuka emotionally gaslighting and rising? Or not gaslighting, but why is Shizuka rzing as the kids would say? Why is why is she rzing Azuma up? What’s happening? Oh, okay. I stand corrected. He didn’t buy the ring for the mom, but it’s it’s his own ring. Okay, I respect that. He’s trying to buy luxury goods like rings and jewelry, not using the allowance obviously to save his mom money, but using his own hard-earned money. I respect that very much. That’s a nice ring. It’s a matching ring. I’m guessing Auma is from a very affluent upper middle or upper class family. A lot of allowances. He can get whatever he wants. assuma is like why is he acting like a normal person who has to earn his paycheck where he just gets showered by his mom about whatever he needs as long he’s doing well in school very typical Eastern Asian household don’t work don’t worry about anything just study study study I’ll take care of everything if the family can afford it of course oh it’s such a nice big brother so we see that Azuma has a flashback and he freezes anytimes he’s about to do like immoral acts like anytime he’s about to go against his own moral values like covering up dead body of Marina and this time trying to steal the ring of his big brother he enters a flashback he has a trauma response and his body freezes that’s the that’s a powerful display of cognitive dissonance definition right here like I talked about dissonance is when we’re when we’re doing something is in active conflict with what we believe It’s when our thoughts and values and our actions don’t line up and don’t match. It creates a constant dissonance or I guess caliculi internal struggle or internal battle. So I think his body freezing up after having flashbacks is like a depiction of that of Azuma’s internal struggle. Um so we’ll see how he covers up because obviously the big brother’s phone rang and he’s going to go back to the room. Bro, all those gadgets. Yeah, that’s not sus at all. What did Zuma just jump out the window? Oh, those Oh, that was close. Oh, that was close. Wow. Thank god, dude. Honestly, if the writers killed Azuma by him falling off the rooftop here, I was going to stop the show. Honestly, I don’t think I could have keep watching the show after killed. That would have been crazy. Oh, bro, that was traumatizing. My gosh, that was so scary. He almost fell to death. Bro, it’s so toxic. So toxic. Bro, I’m getting goosebumps. So toxic, dude. Damn, bro. Auma is having another PTSD flashback because Takobi said we couldn’t do it. I think the trigger number one trigger word for Azumo that he’s banking his entire self-worth onto is you can’t do it. I think anytime he hears those words, he will do whatever it takes to prove his self selfworth that he could do it. He’s not the failure. He’s not worthless as what he’s monelling him. But the mom is punishing Azuma for not getting 100%. That’s nuts, yo. And when when she’s like, I guess it’s a waste of time. You always fail no matter what we try. As an Asian myself who grew up in a tiger parents households, I’ll bet my money that that fail is probably like 90%. Maybe even 93, four, 5%. But to that mom, how come you fail this again? Your brother gets 100%. But you never get 100%. 93% 95% not good enough. But we see that Azuma freezing up the blanks there and having another PTSD flashback and trauma response. Azuma is crying and finally letting out all of his frustrations, hurtfulness and just from that mounting pressure because whatever we don’t express gets suppressed and eventually the accumulates and pent up and explode and that explosion or implosion often is not a pretty sight. So I’m happy for Auma that he was able to let out all his frustrations, his hurts and everything in between. Oh, Japanese kare. Yeah, Taki, that’s not sus at all. Again, this the writers are [ __ ] nuts, dude. Again, excuse my French. We went from such a distraught, heartbreaking, brutal, cruel opening of episode 3, continuation from episode 2 to now second half of the episode. It’s so cheerful. So cheerful. listen to his music. So cheerful. My random question is, was the manga even more intense than the anime? Uh, can someone comment in the below if you’ve seen I’m sure many of you guys read manga before the very successful animation adaptation. Is the anime pretty accurate? Did it do a very accurate and good job from adapting from manga? And how intense was manga? Cuz this anime is freaking intense, dude. I can’t even imagine a manga if it it’s even more intense than this. Not complaining. I’m enjoying this rare moment of cheerfulness and absence of trauma. A so heartwarming to see even though this is also kind of twisted in a way. Did they not fully bury the capsule? What’s the point of burying that body if the capsule can be seen from the surface? Another clock. It’s passage of time transformation. It’s called physics, fam. Physics. That this. I like how Shizuka Cashi has a massive beetle on on her. I guess as a girl, she’s not afraid of insects. It is so much fun. Taco pee the volleyball. Don’t you have a broken rocket ship? Whoa. It’s before obviously going back to Marina’s parents arguing and bickering as always cuz remember uh in episode one I could be wrong but if I’m not mistaken I thought Takopi said that she cannot fly back to happy planet and she can’t bring Shizuka with her to the happy planet because the rocket ship is malfunctioning but why can’t she remember? Is there some sort of a side effects to all the time machine and time traveling? Is that kind of eroding Takop’s memory? Is there some sort of unknown side effects from time traveling to the memories of Taco P? But why can’t Taco P remember or am I wrong in the sense that that’s rocket ship didn’t crash? And that’s actually not the reason why Tak is stuck on planet Earth for now. And last thing is again uh I might sound very cynical just because of how intense the show is but remember when Takobi is like oh why can’t I wish we can always be this happy playing smiling with Auma and Shizuka. I think that’s a massive foreshadowing. The fact that Takopi said that we’re probably going to see not so happy scenes or stories that’s to come. Sounds like the parents came to an agreement and they they’re not going through the divorce mediation, but rather they’re moving forward with separation/eventual divorce. Oh boy, I freaking knew it. Dude, do you see that glare and that Yeah, that glare from the mom as soon as the the dad leaves again to nightclub or wherever he disappears into the night. Sounds like um Takopi is going to be subjugated to uh the mother’s abuses as soon as the dad leaves. Uh but based on that glare of the mom, it’s I’m guessing it’s going to be a rough ends or rough uh scenes to come. Oh boy. Uhoh. Uhoh. Uhoh. Oh. Oh, here we go. Fixious cycle. Hurt people hurts people. Oh gosh. What? The mom knew Or are those just angry words? She knows. Oh, I knew it. I think this scene symbolizes this forced confrontation of Taco P’s moral disengagement definition right here. Moral disengagement is when people disengage from their moral values by justifying and rationalizing what they’re doing even though it’s immoral. In this case, I think Taco Peas through the mother’s breakdown and pleading to return my Marina Chun back to me. I love her. That’s all I have. I think Taco P is facing a forced confrontation about the implications and the consequences of killing Marina. Seeing a mother, although the mother is also very cowardly and in a very toxic way because she’s just releasing all of her trauma onto Marina. As we saw, she’s not the best mother either. Emotionally manipulative, physically, and verbally abusive as well. But to the mother’s credit, I do think that the mother does care about Marina more so than the shitty father. She does care way more. But another deeper aspect of that, it also could be that mom has placed all of the meaning and the value of her life into the basket of Marina because her life is so uncontrollable. spiraling out of control, divorce, the husband cheats on her, husband doesn’t care about her, the husband’s or the father doesn’t care about Marina, the daughter. She’s absolutely miserable. The mother is a stay-at-home mom gets ridiculed and disrespected by the husband constantly. Can’t do anything about infidelity. So, I think the mom is placing all of the baskets and hope into the basket or all of the eggs into the basket of Marina. It’s also very toxic because it’s not healthy for the mom or Marina. It’s simply too much burden for the child Marina to carry having all that eggs of hope, all of the meaning and purpose of the mother carrying as a burden onto Marina. Um, so I think I think those are what’s happening in this scene with the mother pleading. But again, the fact that the mom knew that Taco P is fake Marina, it does show that deep inside the mother does care and the mother does love merina. Otherwise, she never would have noticed like I talked about earlier. Forest confrontation. I think Takopi for the first time I think is understanding the consequences of her actions, understanding the complexity of human emotions and confronting ethics and morals and her actions for the first time. In other words, I think Takop’s naive or naive outlook is shedding a little bit. I think in a traumatic way, but still nonetheless, Taco P is becoming more humanlike or at least understanding a little bit more about the human condition, the human experience, which she knew nothing about until now. Oh, there used to be such a happy family. What happened to the father? What happened to this household? Such a happy family before. She’s confronting her guilt. That’s good. That was such a profound and emotionally powerful scene like I talked about with the symbolism mirror moment of reflection, contemplation, and accepting and confronting her guilt and the consequences of killing another person where the mom is suffering. Takop is trying to reconcile with her new values, outlook in life, consequences, and I think also her mission to make Shizuka happy at all cost. She has to find another way to make Shizuka happy again without killing anyone else. This is a sign of emotional maturity or this is a sign of emotional growth and Takobi has become little bit little bit more emotionally mature than previously. very very powerful moment. And the last thing I would say is about uh because I do relationship counseling as a psychotherapist. If you look at the latest uh divorce statistics in in the United States, it’s about 58% divorce rate. But if you’ve been divorced at least once, you’re more likely to get a second divorce and third divorce. And if you equalize all the statistics and numbers, second divorce rate comes down to about 70%. Extremely high. Why? Because if you knew you can have a way out, an exit plan from a from a marriage, if the marriage is a lifelong commitment, you know, you can do it again. You can divorce again. Just quit. Just give up. And that’s the reason why so many um divorce couples after they divorce, they thought they found a new forever other half, but they divorce again and again. If you don’t work on your problems within your marriage or relationships, even if you find a new boyfriends, new girlfriends, new husband, new wife, the same issues will persist and you will inevitably end up with the same outcome again. And here’s what I want to really emphasize on out of that 58% couples who’s divorced, when they first got married, when they first proposed on their one knee, when they first put on that ring onto the ring finger. All right, here ring finger. None of those couples even thought about the possibility of divorce. None of those couples ever thought it was possible that they too will become a part of the statistics. But what happens? Time goes by. People avoid uncomfortable conversations. People escape. People use distractions. They don’t want to address the elephant in their room. They’re not willing to have the uncomfortable conversation. But here’s the hard truth. By avoiding all those micro moments of discomfort, having difficult but necessary conversations, you will eventually face the biggest discomfort of it all. Divorce, breaking of family, traumatizing of your child because of the divorce and everything in between. Let’s all try to work on ourselves personal development so that we can avoid becoming a statistics of divorce because that is not healthy and very traumatizing for everyone involved especially for innocent children. I knew that was foreshadowing. I knew it. I knew them not covering the entire capsule underneath was a foreshadowing for that body to be covered. And here we are. You’ve cooked is because I serve and volunteer at high school ministry on on Sundays. As the kids would say, Shizuka and Taki would cooked with Azu. Fore! Foreign! Foreign! Fore! Fore!chch! Riz.ch. Why is Shizuka emotionally gaslighting and rising? Or not gaslighting, but why is Shizuka rizzing as the kids would say? Fore! Fore!chch! foreign. Fore! Fore!chch! Fore speech. Rest.chech. You should get some rest after working all day. I’ll eat the rest of the cake tomorrow. Confession. He made a confession about stealing the money. Her love confession took him by surprise. Vicarious. She enjoys the vicarious thrill of adventure movies. Parents often feel a vicarious pride in their children’s achievements. Literature She is studying English literature at university. There is little scientific literature on this rare disease. Fore intuition. My intuition tells me something is wrong. She had the intuition to trust him and she was right. Thank you. in denial. He’s in denial about his drinking problem. She was still in denial after the breakup. Fore sauce. He keeps sneaking around. Pretty sauce if you ask me. That deal sounds kind of sauce. Are you sure it’s legit? Inflict. The hurricane inflicted severe damage on the coastal towns. He inflicted pain on himself by ignoring medical advice. Fore self-sufficient. The village is self-sufficient, producing its own food and energy. She became self-sufficient after moving out of her parents’ house. manipulative. He has a manipulative personality and always gets what he wants. She used manipulative tactics to win the argument. Fore toxic. He left his job because the workplace was toxic. That was such a toxic relationship. I’m glad it’s over. Fore! Fore!chch! Astute. She made an astute observation about the company’s strategy. He’s an astute businessman who knows how to spot opportunities. Foreign

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