日本人はどうやって告白する？👫【N3-N4】1 Hour Real Talk about Love & Relationships

日本人はどうやって告白する？👫【N3-N4】1 Hour Real Talk about Love & Relationships

Hello, this is MiyazakiHello, this is ToriyamaNice to meet youToday’s themeToday ‘s theme is to talk about Japanese love and human relationshipsOkay then let’s get startedLet’s give it a tryYes, Miyazaki-sanOkay then let’s have a goYes, that’s the themeYes, well, on a date, yeah who pays for the moneyOh, on a date, who pays for the moneyYes , a man and a womanA man and a woman on a date[music] Yeah that means you like each other, don’t you like each otherYes, you went to a restaurantSo , the question is who pays for the dinner at that timeWell, I normally pay for everythingOf courseToriyama-san paysYeah, well, that’s because I have money now, right?Well, no, even if I don’t have money, I still pay for the person I likeToriyama-san is 18Yeah, I don’t have any money at all but I do my best to pay moneyI payYeah, I want to look cool thereYeah, well, um, so are they datingYes, not datingYes, or have they been dating for a long timeOh , this changes a lot, it changesYeah, I see, when I was younger I used to go half-way If it was 1000 yen, then yes we would each pay half, 1500 yen each.I see, we used to go half the bill, yeah but when I was a student, yeah when I was 15 or 16 and we went on dates to do things I liked, I guess we might have gone half, yeah as expected, yeah I didn’t have any money, but after I started working, yeah when I went out to do things I liked I would work hard to earn money, yeah I wonder if I paid, yeah so I went on a date with a girl I didn’t like, yeah I didn’t like yet, yeah and we met for the first time.You often have dating apps and yeah dating sites, you know, right? And that was the first time I met her and she was ugly, yeah what should I do? No why I don’t wash it, I don’t pay, yeah I don’t pay, what’s that about?The whole amount with the other person , no we go half, yeah we go half, of course I see , it depends on whether you can do it or not, because whether you can do it or not, it’s not my type , the other person isn’t Toriyama’s type, yeah but it’s not like I want to do it, whether you can do it or not, that face is based on your face, based on your face, yeah it’s not good to say something like that, it’s good No, but is it okay? No, it’s from Toriyama’s perspective, so yes, it’s okay, well, if her face and body are good, then I’ll pay the money, I see, if she seems like she can go, then if I think she can go, then yes, I’ll pay all the money, of course, and then after that, yes, I’ll pay the money too, um, it’s after that, yeah, well, how much fun did you have , yeah, I see, it depends on how good it is, yeah, of course, if it was now, yes, if it was now, I could pay, now, yeah, my age is now about 35 or 36, yeah, I have a little money now so of course I’ll pay everything, but if I was younger I would think about it, yeah, so now, yeah, I’ve never gone out drinking with a girl for the first time , no, I have a wife so I can’t say that, I can’t say that, I can’t say it exactly, yeah, if I was seen, yeah, it wouldn’t be a problem, even if I don’t go drinking, yes, even if I do go, I won’t say anything, yeah, I won’t say anything, generally, even if I’m not cute, I’ll just drink, drink When I get drunk I look really cute Ah it’s almost the magic of the alcohol Yes the magic of alcohol works and it almost disappears Ah I just blurted it out I see I see Well I think men and women break up No but wait a sec I’m sure women feel that way when they’re drunk too Yeah even a face like mine is okay What do you think, what do you think? I had dinner with Toriyama-san for the first time I think I can go I think I think What are you talking about? You say this person can go but you say no I’m not This I ‘ve gone off on a tangent but that’s right It’s a question of who will pay the money So to use more complicated words a worthy woman If she’s a worthy woman I’ll pay Yes a worthy woman Yes I can’t pay for an unworthy woman That’s the conclusion, that’s the conclusion The conclusion came out pretty easily That’s right But from the woman’s perspective I’d like to hear your opinions too. Yes, that’s right. Women are, yes, which is it really? In the image of Japan, yes, women don’t pay, right? Yes, I have to say that, it’s all about the culture in Japan. Yes, yes, yes, Japanese women don’t pay much. Many of them don’t pay. Yes, yes, they do take out their wallets, but they take out their wallets and say, “I’ll pay, ” and then they say, “No, no, no, wait, I’ll do it once,” and then they say, “I’ll do it … Yes , if someone asks for it, will they pay ? Yes, I don’t think they will, will they pay? Yes, I do, but I’m thinking something in the back of my mind, I’m sure they won’t pay, what’s with this guy, yes, he’s probably thinking in his head that they should at least bring out the rice tray, I’m sure, I don’t want them to think that , so yes, I think they might as well just pay, right, it’s smart, it’s cool to pay smartly, men, yes, what I’ve thought is cool recently is that he’ll say he’s going to the bathroom about 10 minutes before a meeting, and then while he’s in the bathroom, he pays the bill , yes, that’s smart, so that the woman doesn’t notice, yes I know, I know, but I, yes, it’s a bit embarrassing, I can’t do it, oh There’s a bit of a feeling that I’m doing it , there’s a feeling that I’m doing it, I’m doing it, yeah it’s difficult, I’m doing it, I’m doing it, I’m doing it, I want to do it, yeah it’s difficult to say it, it seems to have many meanings , yeah, what I just said was kind of embarrassing and it feels like I’m trying to be cool, it’s cold, yeah it’s not that kind of feeling, this is also difficult , I see, I see, I see, shall we go to the next topic, let’s go, oh, is it okay, yeah , how do you say “I love you, I love you”? What do you mean when you say it to the opposite sex, when you confess your feelings to the opposite sex, yeah, by the opposite sex I mean women, from our perspective women, yeah, the opposite is also I do, but I don’t usually say “I love you” out of the blue. When you start to like someone, the timing of your confession is, you know, in foreign movies you often see it like, “I love you , I love you,” or something like that, yeah, it’s common, yeah, it gets intense all of a sudden, yeah, it gets intense all of a sudden and they start taking off their clothes, yeah, yeah, yeah, that doesn’t exist in Japan, we don’t have books like that, so it’s not that intense, it doesn’t exist, women, how do you like it, how do you like it, when do you say you like it, you know, I love you, I like you , in my case Yeah, well, like, try doing it a little, hey, hey, heading over there lately, you know, I kind of like, I think it’s about you [Music] Really, really, really , but in a casual way, without trying to be too cool, without being too formal, I ‘ll lend it to you, I like you, please go out with me, but that’s a little lame isn’t it, I might not say I like you, I might not say it, what do you mean, replacing it with different words, would I say it, would I say it, what would I say?, if you look over here , I might not say it, either way, there’s that kind of mood, isn’t there? [Music] That’s right, mood is important I wonder what it is when you’re in the right mood, but it’s okay to kiss me, but that doesn’t mean you don’t like me, that’s just a way of saying you like me, right? It’s okay to kiss me, it’s okay to do it, it’s not that, it’s so lewd, Naruhomi, it’s so lewd, if we can do it inside, we can probably go out together, right? Ah, normal girls, Toriyama-san, you’re probably the type who only go out after you’ve done it, right? No, but it’s so quick, it’s so quick , we don’t go out after doing it, so let’s kiss and go out together [laughs] I see, yeah, so the inside is the first one, yeah, the first kiss, yeah , you know what it is, don’t you think ? There’s an atmosphere that you both like each other, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere , the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere , the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere , the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere, the atmosphere So you message them and say “I love you” through messages, right ? There are a lot of people who say “I love you” through messages, right? Recently, recently, they don’t say it to your face, right ? Yes, it’s strange, right? Yes, it’s true, right? Yes, it’s true, right? Yes, it’s true , right? Yes , it’s true , but in America, there was something, the way to say it properly becomes boyfriend and girlfriend, right, there’s a spell, right, there’s a spell, isn’t it “I love you”? Isn’t it different? No, it’s not, it’s like, there’s a slang, right, please tell me what that slang is, right? Yes , everyone wants to express it in words if they can, right … But not everyone uses it, what was it again, WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram, yeah , and KaoTalk, LINE isn’t that famous, yeah, that’s right, everyone in Japan uses LINE now, yeah, 99% All Japanese people use LINE, right? Yes, but foreigners use it too , but it’s not famous in Japan, Yes, that’s true, so let’s talk about whether replies on messaging apps are fast or slow, Ah, I see, By the way, Miyazaki-san, Yes, I’m pretty fast, Yes, me too, I send a message as soon as I notice, I send it right away, but there are people who don’t send messages, there are people who don’t reply right away, Yes, there are people, I wonder why, it’s a bit annoying, yes, but, but, I, um, I rarely reply to my mother or father, I rarely reply , Yes, I get messages, um, um, um, Toriyama, how are you doing lately, Yes , I want to hang out with that kid for a bit, but I’m a grandmother, um , um, um, I want to hang out with my kid for a bit, but when is my phone open? I don’t reply, Ah, it’s slow, what’s up, I wonder, but do you understand this? Do you reply properly to your mother, etc. , Yes, I do, Yes, I do, but it might be slow, You end up thinking, Yes, it’s fine later, Yes, it’s fine later , Maybe, it’s fine later, I wonder, um, isn’t this a nationwide thing about parents ? Image of the countryMy image of foreign countries is that they love their mom and dad, yeah, mother and father , yes, I have an image of them loving each other, yeah, that might be true, when Japanese people say they love their parents, they’re called mama’s boys , yeah, maybe not that often, it’s not that rare , it’s rare that they love their mom and dad, so it’s rare, yeah, on the other hand, yeah, women do love their mothers, yes, quite often, women between women, yeah, mothers and daughters, yeah, they get along well here, but with sons and fathers like us, yeah, they don’t get along that well, they don’t seem to get along that well, that’s the image that people have, it’s not that they don’t get along, yeah, do you understand that? It’s not that they don’t get along, but I don’t particularly try to get along, yeah, yeah, there’s no need for them to get along, yeah, it’s fine if there’s this little distance , yeah, a certain distance, yes, if there’s a certain distance, that’s fine, yeah, going back to what I was saying about the speed of replies to LINE messages earlier , for example, if it’s between two men , they’ll reply right away, they’re pretty fast, yeah, before you know it, yeah , yeah, 1 second to 2 I don’t reply in seconds, yeah , but if it’s a woman, even if it’s a woman I like, no, I’m still pretty fast, yeah, it’s someone you’re not dating, ah we’re not dating, ah we haven’t done anything yet, yeah Miyazaki likes that woman, ah I like her, I want to date her, I want to , yeah, yeah, but that woman doesn’t like Miyazaki yet, I don’t know if she likes me, yeah I don’t know, yeah, so in those times, it’s difficult, but there’s a word called tactics, yeah tactics, yes, this is something that maybe everyone does too, if you deliberately don’t reply, yeah deliberately don’t answer the phone, yeah , it can make the other person a little worried, right, you do that on purpose, yeah deliberately delaying it, I see , it’s a trap, it’s like setting someone up , right? You know the moment they contact you, yeah it’s here, you put it down once, you don’t touch it very often , this is what they call tactics, it’s the tactics of love, yeah , yeah, it’s because you want to win the woman over, of course you want to, because you want to In the end, that’s the goal, so yes, but you can make it slower or faster or faster, when do you make it faster? There are small questions, right? Yes, what did you eat today, Yes, for those kinds of simple questions, you reply with a quick ‘pop’ and the other person will also reply with a ‘pop ‘, Yes, Yes, you stop replying with a ‘pop’ and suddenly , or if you suddenly stop replying, the other person will be like, ‘ Oh, oh, oh, what’s wrong?’ , Yes, they’ll come over too, they’ll come over, they ‘ll come over, there are a lot of women, yes, a lot of them, my wife now does it, even now, even now, even now, to Miyazaki, yes, why, I don’t know, I don’t know, she’s playing games with me, I don’t understand, I don’t understand her emotions, it’s a lie, this, what? What? What? Yes, no, my wife is also fast now, yes, now she comes home in an instant, yes , I get it, stamp pop, yes, maybe she used to be slow to reply, oh , maybe she was playing games with me, in the past she didn’t really come home, I ‘m sure it was because she was playing games with me, yes, that happened, yes, but Miyazaki’s wife is still playing games with me, yes, you see, when a LINE message comes, you can see the message here, so there ‘s a system called ‘read’ Ah, I saw this message, right? If you press the button to see it, the other person will see it as read, huh? Yes, it sends a notification that it has been read, yeah, it’s a strange system, but it doesn’t mark it as read, that person, my wife, looks at it on this screen and then leaves it like, oh no, I have no idea why, there are so many LINE messages piling up, ah, isn’t it just annoying, I guess it’s annoying, I include myself in that, if you don’t tell them, yeah, because they ask you to go shopping and buy them vegetables, I think, yeah, they ask you to buy tomatoes on the way home and then you send them, yes , are tomatoes enough? Do you want milk or something? If you ask, it’s no good if it’s not marked as read, so you can only have one conversation, ah, I see, I’m going to put my phone down soon, um, you know that kind of annoying feeling, I do, that’s right Do you think it’s the same for foreigners too ? Yes, I get LINE messages from my wife too, and sometimes I just leave them like that for about a week. A week is a long time, and then that final LINE message, for example, if I did that today and I got it, I got it, yeah , don’t you see it? I see, I see, that happens a lot, it ‘s a mystery, isn’t it? What do you all think? Well, the next one is, yes, a man and a woman can become friends. Oh, this is an eternal theme , this is something that often comes up in conversation, but there are people who get used to it and people who don’t, isn’t it about half and half? What about Toriyama-san ? I don’t think I get used to it very much, but there are also people who get used to it, so that means you get used to it, doesn’t it? It depends on the person, of course it depends on the person, but honestly , don’t use “net, net” or whatever. [laughs] This time, the Kansai dialect is a bit cute, and we’re friends. [music] Yes, being friends means you get along well, yes , yes, you get along well, yes, if she’s a little cute then of course you’ll fall in love, yes, there’s a high chance you’ll fall in love, because you get along well and she’s not bad looking, yes, that’s true, but what if it’s your friend’s wife? Toriyama’s friends ‘ wives get along well, all three of them, yes, they’re cute, they get along well, yes, but you’ll fall in love with your friend’s wife, ah, I wouldn’t fall in love with her, but I kind of imagine it, I guess in my head, I might imagine something like an adult video, if she’s cute, adult video, even adult video, no, that’s not possible, I’ll just be realistic about it, because we’re married, yes, well, we’re both married, yes, yes, you can’t do that, you can’t do that, what’s that like? That’s the way we live Yeah, we live our lives wondering whether we should take part in such a world competition or notThat ‘s rightYeah, that’s rightBut, to put it in extreme terms, to put it in extreme terms, someone who is not cute and is really ugly but has a good personality can become friendsYou can, you can, but it’s always those girls who end up liking youAh no , ah, that happens, that’s not the case, it hurts when we were friendsI have thought to myself, please don’t like me and youThat’s right, I guess that ‘s how it is, and the opposite is also true, yeah, it’s a bit difficult today, there are words like, again, and yeah, yeah, if there are any words you don’t understand please comment, yeah, I’ll explain the nuances properly, yeah, isn’t it just like that?If the person you just said was cute we wouldn’t be friendsAh, so we’re not married to each other, Toriyama-san isn’t married either Yes Yes That girl isn’t married They get along well with her She’s cute She has big breasts It’s impossible She has a great figure It’s impossible I like her, I like her , I like her, but I don’t like her I want to be her friend but we can’t be friends [laughs] If she won’t let me do that then I won’t be her friend Ah that’s weird What does that mean Ah? Yes I want to be adult friends [laughs] Ah what they call friends with benefits Friends with benefits Yes Ah sex friends Yes Kids aren’t watching this Are there any teenagers? It’s fine if they’re teenagers Really Yes It’s better to listen to conversations about whether they’ll do it or not Actually I see Yes This is a real conversation Yes Yes Let’s go next Yes Yes Well then Tsuki-san, yes Let’s have you choose Can you have a long distance relationship Ah long distance relationship Do you know this Long distance is exactly what it is The kanji for long distance is It’s exactly the same, but it’s a long distance, yes, a long distance, Hokkaido and Okinawa , yes, it’s far, far away, is it possible to have a relationship there, yes, long distance, for example, Tokyo and Ibaraki, this is not that far, it’s long distance, yes, you can meet, but if you’re a student, it’s a bit far, yes, you can’t see each other every day, if you’re an adult you can go by car, yes, yes, it doesn’t have to be Ibaraki, Tokyo and Gunma , ah Gunma is a bit far, yes, yes To put it simply, Chiba and Kanagawa, ah, about two and a half hours by car, yes, that’s long distance, that’s a bit long distance, yeah, have you had any experience? No, no, no, no, yes, yes, there are, what do you do? What do you do in a long distance relationship, yes, you call each other, yes, of course you call and video call, it’s strange, isn’t it, what does that mean you like each other even though you can’t meet, ah, but it works out, of course, once a week or 2 We meet at the same time . Oh, you know, if it’s long distance you can’t meet, right? You can meet once a week , if you try hard, yes, you can go out on the weekends off and go on dates. Where was the long distance relationship between? Chiba and Tochigi . Oh, so meeting once a week is amazing. It takes about three hours by car. You met once a week, once a week, that’s amazing. Yes, that’s amazing. You went back and forth. Yes, the other person would come and you ‘d be in the middle. Oh, right, on a date, let’s meet here. Yes, hmm, and then we’d do it again and then break up. Yes, yes, yes, ah, I see. If that’s the case, it doesn’t seem like you could have a long distance relationship. [Music] Yeah wait wait, I think meeting once a week would be considered a long-distance relationship, I mean we are dating, so you see each other once a week, yeah, the question is whether it’s called a long-distance relationship because you see each other, yeah, Toriyama-san has a slightly different definition , my definition and his is whether we can meet once a month or so, yeah, if that’s the case then it’s probably just Japan and America, yeah, then it’s like once every six months, yeah, meeting up then is a long-distance relationship, the real deal, that’s what Toriyama-san was saying, yeah, it’s long-distance, something I’ve never done that before, so yes, that’s the image I have of it, so maybe my relationship between Chiba and Tochigi is a little long distance, yes, a little long distance, medium distance, medium distance love, medium distance , medium distance love , yes, close distance love , close distance love, like your houses are next to each other, or next to each other [laughs] close distance, close distance, yes, but I have the impression that people overseas are often long distance, it’s so wide, that’s right, the country is so big so it seems like they’re dating far away without any problem, ah, isn’t it a little scary? Cheating, you know, cheating is a thing, right, it’s something that comes with it, a thing … Yeah one of the fans has already fallen in love with Toriyama ah ah he’s single yes ah single you’re single yes not married he’s super cute so the fans over there are so excited Toriyama-san is cool we’re going out we’re going out yes ah I’m in Australia what should we do ah love is already burning I’m going to Australia [laughs] I can’t have a long distance relationship anymore I want to meet you I want to meet you of course I want to be cozy with you but I don’t have the money why why not? Yes no no no no not really I can’t afford to travel that much At 35 and at 35 I only have 200,000 yen a month so a long distance relationship is the only option but still yeah can you have a long distance relationship no you can’t yeah that’s what it would be no you can’t it it’s tough for me too not being able to meet yeah it’s lonely it seems lonely yeah yeah I’m a lonely person so basically that’s how I am yeah I’m very lonely and well I don’t know what to do and I have a strong sex drive and it’s a relationship yeah yeah but when I can’t hold it in what do I do it alone one by one one by one gauge and gauge parameters yeah I’ll do it alone this gauge and the normal 2 The gauge used by one person is different when it’s used by two people, right? The gauge, the gauge, yes, the colors are different colors, what are you saying , the colors of the gauge are different, I don’t understand anything about what you’re saying, I’m sure I’m sorry, okay, let’s get back to the topic, what were we talking about? Can you have a long distance relationship or not? Miyazaki-san said that you can, yes, you can , or rather, you said that you can, yes, you can do it even if you can’t meet, yes, well, I don’t know about overseas , yes, you might cheat, I’m good at it here, so stop it, I’m good at it, I really think that kind of thing, so sometimes I don’t get jokes like this, it might not be a joke, you know [laughs] Let’s stop, then, the next topic, the next topic, yes , let’s keep going, let’s keep going, let’s keep going, okay, finally, I think we’re about halfway through now, are we halfway through? Yes, where do you go with your girlfriend or, er, married wife , ah, a date, yeah, okay, okay, on a first date, then let’s start with the first date, oh, first date , first date, yeah, basically, when is it, when a man and a woman go on their first date, the man definitely thinks about where to go, right ? Hmm, I mean, not when you were a student? There was a middle school thing, you know, go do what you like, eat, let’s go when you’re around 20 years old, okay, 20 This is a story about when they were around 10 or 20 years old, well, I think you would ask a woman where she wants to go too, but this time, let’s think about it, when I was around 20 years old, I always said Disneyland, it was a first date, isn’t it a big date? I guess you can really tell a lot about the other person’s personality at Disneyland, so I used to go there a lot, isn’t it a bit heavy for a first date? No way, no way, it’s expensive now, yeah, now, that was 15 years ago, yeah, yes, yes, or maybe a movie theater , yeah, it’s safe, thank you It’s light and quick, right, so after going to the cinema, we go to a small restaurant and eat and talk about how the movie was, wasn’t it fun? Yes, yes, a typical place is a cinema, yes , that aquarium, yeah, yes, it has an aquarium feel, yes, an aquarium, yes, but aquariums are boring, are n’t they ? Are they strong? I’m not that interested, you know, Miyazaki-san is like that, isn’t he? I’m not that interested, I’m quite happy, or rather surprised, wow, look at the sharks, look at them, look at them, look at them, wow, they’re really moving, yes, it’s quite entertaining for girls It’s fun to entertain, it can entertain others, I see, but I’ve been to an aquarium too, and I do have a reaction , but deep down I think it’s not fun, it’s just my heart that’s polluted, it’s not polluted, it’s like, it’s not fun to see animals that you don’t normally see, it’s fun, but I think there are more fun things to do, it’s cloudy, it’s cloudy, my heart doesn’t think like that, is it really, there are only dogs and cats around here, there are animals like calas, cows , etc, it’s fun just to see them It’s not that, yeah, the smell and the sounds you can hear, yeah the important thing is to have fun using these, so oh, it doesn’t smell, it smells quite bad, the zoo smells bad, doesn’t it, it smells bad, enjoy that too, that ‘s the best part , yeah if you go overseas, yeah if you go to India, I’m sure the smell of curry is strong, yeah probably, but you’ll enjoy that, I think you’ll enjoy it, yeah it’s like that, on the contrary, you’d want to smell the smells overseas, yeah you can enjoy the zoo with that kind of feeling I see, I often thought that, yeah the guy who goes home, well I wouldn’t say going home, but going home, well it was a first date Yes, there is, ah, an aquarium, a movie theater , Disneyland, yes, Disneyland, a game center, yes, I might have gone there in the past, ah, no , bowling, yes, I went bowling too, ah, but I don’t think we went on a first date, bowling, yeah, we go together, well, with four or five people, yes, we don’t go just the two of us, no, but when I was a student, I would go to a game center , yeah, I’d like to go to karaoke, I went to karaoke, yeah, karaoke is a karaoke box, a place to sing, yeah, karaoke isn’t common overseas, yeah, that’s right, there are a lot of them in Japan, well, they’re everywhere, yeah , they’re at every station, they’re at every station, they’re at almost every station, even in rural stations, there’s karaoke at every station, yeah, we do go to karaoke, but a first date at a karaoke is fun, yeah, but somehow it’s not the norm, karaoke hall , movie, yeah, Disneyland, but nowadays, I probably would go to an izakaya, yeah, I’d say let’s go out for dinner, and then we’d go to an izakaya, a girl, I’d get her to drink and get drunk, and then we’d go straight to a hotel, that’s you, right?, just hurry up, hurry up, yeah, you want to get it over with, right?, well, I’m still innocent, so I’ll go, planetarium, planetarium Taliu Planetarium Yes the stars I’m going to see the stars Seeing the stars That’s right Like this Planetarium Oh it’s beautiful You’re beautiful too I wouldn’t go to a planetarium on a first date Ah that’s right I’ve never been There’s no way I’ve never been Well there are event venues and the like What is that Basically, famous places are places like Odaiba and Big Sight There are big event venues in Japan Yes there are Yes it’s fun to go to places like that Ah I see There are lots of stalls and festivals are good too That’s right That’s right That’s right A little We drink alcohol and eat food, yeah, we look at lots of things, this, this, and that area, but I think we’ve pretty much got it all together? Japan, this is what Japanese people go to on their first dates, yeah, how about a big park? Like Ueno Park, a walking date, well, I don’t know what to talk about, or rather, a walking date to talk, yeah, Toriyama doesn’t do it , yeah, I don’t know when it’s OK to go home, it’s definitely about time to go home, right, where are we going after our walk? So, let’s take a walk and have a bit of food, yeah , we’ll eat somewhere around there, that’s super healthy, healthy, we don’t spend money , we start at 9am, we start, we lie down until around 11pm, yeah, we sit on a bench, right, let’s go for lunch, we eat, and then we go Ah, we disbanded, there Yes Yes, that’s good too That kind of thing is good Yes I want to try it lightly Yes I can’t do that kind of thing After that, ah, that’s definitely trying to finish everything in one day Miyazaki-san doesn’t understand this Ah I see I don’t understand I take about a week and go through the steps like this Yes Slowly and steadily Yes Slowly and steadily I see So that’s how it’s done now That ‘s right Yes, please tell me about your first date Yes I’m curious about first dates overseas Yes I do For example, if it’s America, where would you go? I’ve never been to America so I don’t know If it’s India, would you go for curry? Curry is an everyday thing, isn’t it? You eat it on a daily basis What do they do in India? I like India so I do too Ah , going to Shimabara Ah, a big palace that looks like a Great Buddha Palace Yes, where are we going? We’ll definitely go Where are we going? Tell me, what was that called? It won’t come to mind China, or something like that China Yes, that’s what China’s origin is, right? The top of Banri Oh, the top of Banri It’s long, it’s a long wall, it’s long That’s walking, that’s walking forever I wonder how many meters it is That ‘s probably There must be a few kilos Yes, I think How many kilos That’s right, yes , dates are tough, first dates are tough, and I still haven’t gotten there, but no, I still have a long way to go, so where should I go? Yes, yes, then I’ll go , yes, it’s good, no, it’s kind of interesting, and yes, thinking about it, isn’t Japan boring? Hmm , we don’t go to the aquarium, the cinema, tourist spots, you know ? Tourist spots, we don’t go to tourist spots anymore, no, it’s not the first time we’ve been to a tourist spot, it’s after we started dating, yes, Asakusa, yes, I see, after we started dating, let’s go and visit a shrine, yes, but we don’t really go on a first date, I can’t remember our first date, yes, me too, but I think I went to Saizeriya, oh, an Italian restaurant, yes, an Italian restaurant, a cheap one, Saizeriya, a cheap restaurant, yes, I think I was drinking from the drink bar there, first date Umm , where is Naoko? Is it Taiitaitai or Vietnam? Is it Taii or Vietnam or Taii or Tuk Tuk Date? Ah, Tuk Tuk Date, I don’t know. In the first place, are tuk-tuks only used by tourists? But they’re like taxis, right? Everyone probably rides them. Ah, I see, I see, it’s like a cheap taxi. Ah, Egypt is Egypt, right? It’s easy, let’s go, or not. Are we going to the pyramids? No, there probably aren’t any Egyptians there. No, I don’t know. Tell me, are we going to the pyramids? Are we going to see the Sphinx? Aren’t you tired of seeing it? Sphinx, yeah. Are we going to see Mira? Mira, yeah . I think you can see it from the town you live in. For us, it’s like Tokyo Tower and the Splendid Tower. You can see the Kite Tree, yeah, yeah, so that might be how it feels , I see, I see pyramids every day, but are they like that everywhere, yeah, everywhere? Pyramids, yeah, there are several in Egypt, small ones and big ones, that is , Greece, Greece, I don’t know, Rome, Rome’s Colosseum , yeah, do they go on a date at Kill, Kill, is there something there? I don’t know the store, yeah, they must fight at the Colosseum, yeah, Colosseum date, Kill, date, yeah, Greece is your image of the Colosseum? Is that Greece? Huh, huh? No, I don’t know, the Roman Empire, it must be Rome, I don’t understand, I’m starting to get confused, okay , yeah , no, seriously, please comment on this , yeah, I want to know the country where everyone’s first date was, apparently, it’s Korean No country, what is it? They keep coming up, so on a first date Koreans don’t eat kimchi, yeah, no, Kim-chan eats it every day, oh that’s right, that’s right, then that’s not a date, you say you eat, oh I see , so let’s go eat kimchi together , right? You eat jangkajin, right, jangkajikajinkejang crab thing, crab, like this, crab, right, that’s what you eat, it’s delicious, that’s a first date, that’s right, on a first date, that ‘s how you do it, I don’t like it, why, it gets a little dirty, you know, it gets dirty, I’m sure it’s like that in Korea, but it’s different from Japanese kimchi, but it seems to be really delicious, I sometimes see it in Korean restaurants in Japan, but I’ve never tried it, that’s right, and it’s Japanese Apparently Japanese Kajin Gejang and Korean Kaji Gejang are completely different, wow, maybe I should go to Korea, I can’t go, there are quite a few Korean people with me, that’s right, yeah, that’s right , yeah, I see, then the next one will come up, let’s think about it, okay, me, yeah, yeah, so when you think about it, in Japan, like we just said, you go to the pyramids, yeah, you go to Korosé , yeah, you eat Kaji Gejang, right ? yeah, you kind of imagine that, so then I think people think that Japan is all about kimono dates, yeah, ninjas, right, right, you eat raw fish, you go to eat natto on a first date, right, Asakusa, right, no way, no way, no movie theater, yeah, I’m not going, yeah, 80% of the movie theaters are Asakusa There probably aren’t many first dates for a girl Well, there might be some who live in that area of ​​Tokyo , but for people like us in places like Chiba, yes, we don’t go. Yes, what if your boyfriend is popular? It’s difficult. If your boyfriend is popular, then your boyfriend is very popular and very popular . He gets a lot of attention from other men. Taizan-san, I’m jealous. Ah, jealous. I’m jealous. Yes, I’m jealous. I’m jealous. They say it’s jealousy. Jealousy. Jealousy . Is it the same? Isn’t it the same ? I’m jealous. I’m very jealous. For example, I don’t even jealous of your wife anymore. So she’s not my wife. I’m dating someone. Yes, that girl is cute, she’s very, very cute, I love her, I love her, I love her, I’ll set it up. Ah, secretly. Hey, hey, Toriyama-san, let’s leave him alone and go out and have fun. Ah, I really don’t want to, I don’t want to, I don’t want to Of course, if I like someone, I want to monopolise them Ah, exclusive, exclusive, I want to make them mine, I’m the type who wants to make them mine, so yeah, I’m very jealous, that’s right, I’m jealous of a girl, but which one is the target of the attack, or am I attacking myself? Miyazaki-san, wait, it’s hard to imagine, then it’s fine, anything is fine, a rather handsome , yep, cool, tall man has arrived, yes, a sweet woman, who will she be angry at? Who will she be angry at, oh, angry, what are you doing? I’m really jealous, so which one will I say it to? Ah, maybe a woman, maybe a woman, yeah, yeah, yeah, I’m not jealous, I used to be jealous, yeah, I do, I was jealous when I was younger, yeah, yeah, that’s right, yeah, he looked at my phone without my permission , yeah , this is good, should I look at his phone or not Like this problem, yeah, do you look at the phone of someone you like? I’m sure everyone has the same problem, yeah, in Japan, women often look at men’s phone, it’s quite common, well, I don’t know if there are a lot of people like that, maybe there are a lot, yeah, yeah, but generally they don’t look, women don’t look, well, when I listen to my friends talk, it seems like most people do look, it’s not the man’s fault, but when a man looks at it, it seems like it’s kind of uncool and unattractive, yeah, you know, I’ve looked too, of course, yeah, I do look, yeah sometimes it bothers me, yeah, yeah, well, I don’t do it anymore but when I was younger I do look at them at times like when I’m sleeping, oh it’s scary, yeah, I’ve already decided, yeah, in the bath Ah it’s scary because if you wake up suddenly while you’re sleeping you’ll be found out, well, suddenly the screen will change like this, yeah in the case of the bath, they definitely won’t come out if you get in, well, they won’t come out, it’s not right away, in the meantime, like this, what , ah I see , well, it’s not out now, yeah when do you look at it? I’m assuming everyone will look, yeah if you’ve seen it, when do you look at your phone? [music] you know, young people these days can find out where someone is, ah they have apps installed, GPS, yeah yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, where are you now? It’s scary, it’s scary, you don’t have to ask where you are, yeah if you look at the screen, yeah you’re playing here, yeah yeah, when, yeah so when they say they’ve come home or they’re at home you have to be at home, yeah it’s obvious but you can’t lie, you can’t lie, and I’m no good, if they let me in it’s impossible, I can’t do it either, me Well, it’s made up of lies, I’m sometimes in Shibuya at around 8am [laughs] That would be bad if that were to be discovered, it would be bad, right, and apparently young people these days share it with multiple friends and use it, so yeah, yeah, a map appears so you can see where everyone is, right, the map appears and your friends’ icons pop up, yeah , this person is here and this person is here, and you can also find out their home , yeah, so if they’re nearby you can say, oh, let’s play, yeah, no , no, yeah, I don’t want that app, yeah, when you don’t want to play, you have to act, yeah, you have to act towards me too, you know, don’t do that, don’t do that, what, I’m getting tired of that Japanese, yeah, yeah, but that GPS app you were talking about earlier, yeah, I think the intended use is for parents and children, yeah, that’s definitely true and we use it too, yeah, doing that, doing that, that GPS And that noisy thing Ah, an alarm alarm Yeah yeah yeah It’s attached to the school bag, but it’s a big, security buzzer, it’s security yeah yeah It’s a loud device yeah yeah It’s a child after all yeah It’s okay to do that to a child I can’t get in touch yeah If that happens, check the app You can see that they’re here by looking at the GPS yeah yeah yeah It’s true that children don’t lie yeah So lovers shouldn’t do it, no it’s not good I guess a moderate amount of lies is necessary A moderate amount of lies and a moderate amount of distance yeah yeah It’s tiring to keep on flirting and kissing each other all the time yeah No way No way Sometimes you need to play So yeah yeah Is that enough? 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